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its kind of been a reoccurring issue for me where every fat guy i meet wants to lose weight. like im at the point now where i’ll straight up tell guys that i think they would look better fatter and that im rly into fat guys but like they dgaf, disregard everything i say, and still wanna lose weight. like i was talking to this rly fat guy in like may of 2025 and like recently we starting talking again and he was like bragging to me abt the fact that he lost 30 pounds. like ok good for him i guess but like tbh i would’ve preferred if he gained 30 pounds instead. i straight up told him that and he called me a weirdo freak. like it deadass be the fat people themselves hating on me for liking them. its like they cant believe i would be interested in them bcs of like the internalized hatred that they harbour towards themselves due to like societal standards n shit. idk it lowkey pisses me off so much like i wish they could see how attractive they are

Dang hadn't met me yet. 😜

There you go!
Same thing for me having a weak spot for big girls. Exactly what you suffered.. met a fatty and like them for being big - no! All thoughts about gaining weight - denied, telling you being a freak.

Let me tell you there a fat haters all around wanting one to diet right now.

A woman loving a fat man, asking him to gain for her because her fingers like to dig deeper..

I wish you all the best Miss Unicorn!!

Unless people are into this, Its gonna seem strange bc its not how society works. If you find a non kink enthusiast fat person, you have to accept that they might want to lose weight and might do it, even if you like them like that. They have to like themselves or your gonna feel that unhappiness and it will 'yuck your yum'.

So, it's probably best you find someone from the community tbh. If a fat partner always being so is your big thing (ha), then don't bother converting normies unless you're interested in turning over a lot of stones.

Just speaking as someone married to a normal bhm who might lose weight someday.